The One Thing All Media Experts Know About Engaging Your Audience

The One Thing All Media Experts Know About Engaging Your Audience

I looked up at the audience to see them on their phones or staring at the ceiling and one of them doing some emails. They were bored. I had lost them.

 

I knew why.

 

I was reading them a list of bullet points from a screen. I hadn’t put the effort into the one thing I always put effort into, because, I was supply teaching, standing in for someone else.

I had fallen into the biggest trap by mistake. I had forgotten the golden rule about engaging the audience.

 

Content FIRST. Platform second.

 

When it comes to marketing or speaking, or spreading a message to anyone, or any form of communication, it’s easy to become obsessed with the platform.

 

You feel the pressure of standing on the stage, or you get thinking about which platforms people will see your ad on… but it’s the CONTENT that comes first.

 

Sounds obvious right? well, It’s not! Because it even took broadcast media quite a while to suss it out too.

About fifteen years ago I was in the depths of working in Radio. Radio: the traditional broadcast medium where we put content together, blasted it out through speakers and people listened – there was no other choice. Audience engagement was pretty easy.

 

At the time we were starting to rethink how Radio was working. Twitter and Facebook were starting to grow, and we were aware that youtube was starting to be a place people went for information. We sat in a room and decided that it had to evolve and we came up with the idea that we should put the brand of the Radio Station in the middle, and then engage with our audience on as many platforms as possible.

 

This approach worked. This approach stuck.

 

So if you are ever sat in a meeting where someone says “we just need to do some facebook ads” or “we should get some videos on youtube” they are platform gazing, rather than focusing on the content.

 

For content to engage with your audience you need to go through the following 3 steps:

1) What is your point? (Also, what do you want to get out of it?)

2) What do you want your audience to remember, and feel?

3) Who are you talking to? Where are they, and what are they needing?

 

It is only when you’re at that third point do you begin to work out what platform will work best and how you tweak it to the platform.

My mistake was to try and deliver someone else’s content without thinking “what is MY point?” or what did I want them to remember? I was just worried that the powerpoint slides made sense. And because of that – I lost the audience.

 

Never again!

 

If you are communicating in any way: Content First, Platform Second.

Flattery Gets You Everywhere

Flattery Gets You Everywhere

When it comes to asking something from someone – whether it be a colleague or a peer or a new business prospect – it is so tempting to just ask for what you want. If you have ever started to wonder why you aren’t getting what it is you are asking for, or it feels like no one is listening – try this one tool.

 

Pay them a compliment.

 

In what is considered the bible of persuasion, one of the big ideas in Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends Influence People” is: “Begin in a friendly way”

 

Do you know anyone that doesn’t like receiving a compliment?

 

Can you think of a time when you didn’t like receiving a compliment?

 

Recently I was asking for some help with a client. The people I asked were very busy people and often I would expect an answer to take about 2 weeks. But this time I changed my approach. I asked for their help and explicitly told them that I really valued their opinion, that they were always brilliant at this sort of thing, and that they were the first people I had thought of.

 

I got answers from them all within 24 hours.

 

I genuinely believe what I wrote. It’s just that in the past I would have assumed they knew that I felt that way, which is why I was asking. Either that or the cynic in me would often think “they are going to know I am sucking up to them and they won’t believe me”.

 

The thing with compliments is that we rarely say them out loud.

 

And, the truth is – you can improve every single relationship you are in or entering into if you articulate your kind thoughts towards that person.

 

So from this minute on, if you can say something nice – say it. I know you will be brilliant at it.

 

3 Reasons Why Public Speaking Will Change Your Life

3 Reasons Why Public Speaking Will Change Your Life

There is no doubt that whenever anyone has to approach speaking in public the nerves set in. Countless articles and books have been written about the ways to beat the nerves, and how to create the perfect presentation. But I wanted to focus in on the “why”. “Why” is it so important to be good at public speaking today, more than ever before.

 

       1)You Will Build Resilience and Grow In Confidence

 

The first time I was in a position of doing a talk that “really mattered” I was so nervous I couldn’t speak to anyone for days. I was afraid of forgetting my lines. I was afraid no one would think anything of what I had to say. I was afraid that I was going to be thought of as all sizzle and no sausage. I felt sick.

 

Then I did the talk.

 

It went really well. Like super well.

 

Nowadays the nerves still come whenever I talk, but I am more confident. I built some resilience to the nerves.

 

After attending one of my Speaker Courses, Clare saw me at an event and said to me “Kate, I went for a job interview after the course, and I decided to just be me, and be confident. On the first question I answered really assertively – and just said what I thought. I would never have done that before the course! I didn’t just get the job, I got offered a better job because of my answer to the first question”

 

If you can beat your fear of speaking in public – you can do anything.

 

       2) You Will Be A Better Communicator In Day to Day Life

 

Great communication is a skill. It requires thought and practice. The thing is that we rarely think of it as a skill, and think of it as something we can all just “do”, and therefore we don’t apply any thought or practice.  Especially when our key way to communicate today is via text or WhatsApp.

 

Speaking in public whether on stage, or podcast or on a youtube channel, will make you a better communicator in your day to day life, because you have to think about what you are saying and how your message is being received.

 

I helped a client start a podcast about 3 years ago. His podcast is on sport, his job is as a surveyor. He commented to me about a year in that he had noticed the impact of the podcast on his working life. He said “Having to form arguments and opinions on a weekly basis on the podcast means I am able to form stronger arguments at work. I am much less fearless about speaking up, and I am better at making a clear point”

 

       3) You Will Become An Authority (and More Persuasive As A Result)

 

There are 2 things that make you successful:

  1. Be good at what you do
  2. Make sure people know about it

 

I have a friend who is a brilliant teacher. He covered a role while a colleague was on maternity leave for a year, did a brilliant job and then went for the role full time. In the interview, he assumed that they realised that he had done a good job, and so didn’t feel the need to tell stories or explain in detail what he had done.

 

He didn’t get the job.

 

When you stand up in public and tell people stories about what you do, and what you do well, you automatically become an authority on what you do.

 

When I did my talk to my industry I went from “person who could do a good job” to “person people knew did that job well”. In fact from that talk I found the confidence, and the authority, to launch a business to coach presenters.

 

The world is noisy. The world has its face in social media. The world is getting automated all the time. Being a good communicator is essential to you being able to achieve your goals – and getting good at public speaking is one of the ways that you can achieve this.

 

You can find out more details of my public speaking course “Speaker In 6” here.

Less Is More: 3 Tips on Editing for Impact

Less Is More: 3 Tips on Editing for Impact

Commercial Radio Presenters have always known the pressure of being allowed to talk, for only a certain time. Over the years it has been my job to get the most out of a presenter that has to talk for only 2 minutes. Or 30 seconds. Or 10 seconds. Or 3 seconds.

 

In that time it’s a radio presenter’s job to get you to listen for 15 minutes more (this is to do with how audience figures are collated). It’s not easy.

 

Now many presenters struggled, complaining that they couldn’t get the story in in-that time. I spent many hours and days explaining that in that short time they should be thinking “what CAN I do?” Rather than “What can’t I get done?” There is nothing like a time limit to make you self edit – but self-editing is hard.

 

Then one day a presenter who had been resistant, bounded up to me and with a real glint in his eye said: “Kate! I listened to my Friday show and I tell you what, this shorter link thing is amazing. When you hear my voice it’s like, boom!”

 

He clapped his hands together “Impact!”

 

Joy.

 

Making every word count is not a new concept, Mark Twain said: “I’m sorry this letter is long, but I didn’t have the time to make it short”. And the Twitter age has had us working out how to edit our complex emotions down to 140/250 characters for some time now.

 

It’s still not easy. So here are some tips to self edit your content.

 

  1. Remove all mitigating language

Too many words get in the way of your message.

 

When you look at a painting the warmer colours (yellows, oranges, reds) attract the eye first. So if you want the eye drawn to a certain part of the canvas you paint some red in that spot. But if you paint the whole canvas red, it’s just red – and nothing else stands out.

 

Words are the same. Too many words, and too much detail is an ineffective way of getting someone to hear your point. You are saying everything and nothing.

 

The first thing to do is to get rid of any wasted words:

 

Like

So

Basically

I was thinking that

Erm

Does that make sense?

 

Not only do they fill in space that needs to be cleared, but they also undermine your point.

 

  1. Rehearse and hear it back

Nothing beats rehearsal and listening back to spot where an edit is required.

 

Record yourself on your phone, and listen back. Film yourself on your phone, and watch it back. Even practising in front of another human gets you to hear yourself back.

 

Trust me – you will hear your edit immediately. I usually find myself yelling “oh shush will you” at myself. And then I just hammer out the words.

 

  1. Get to the point as quickly as you can

 

Helen Zaltzman-Austwick is the Queen Of Podcasters. I saw her speak at a live event a couple of years ago and she advised the audience of eager podcast makers: “Start as late in the story as possible”.

 

The biggest mistake people make is to over explain the set up and give too much context. The story doesn’t start with the set up, it starts with the problem. The set up literally gives your audience the reason to keep listening to you.

 

It’s the same with any point you wish to make. Never make your boss wait 45 minutes before you deliver the point of your presentation. Get into your point as soon as you can.

 

Use these three tips to be heard, and create an impact in these noisy times.

Sell yourself in one line (without sounding like a show off)

Sell yourself in one line (without sounding like a show off)

The One Thing You Can Do To Stick In People’s Minds

In the last blog, I bust some myths around networking – the theme being that you don’t need to make it about you, and in fact, you should make it all about the person you are speaking to.

In fact, there is ONE thing you can do that means you can make sure people know how you can help them.

The most classic question you will get at a networking event or in any new meeting is: “what do you do?”

Most people answer with their job title. “I am an account manager”, “I am a coach”, “I am a sales rep”, “I’m an artist”, “I’m a Managing Director”…

You might know what that means. The person you are speaking to has no idea what that means, or how it impacts them.

Start telling people what it is you do and the impact you have.

In the last blog, it was clear that impactful networking means you are getting people to understand how what you do can help them.

Not only do you have to listen to them, but you also need to be clear about what it is you do.

So you need to have what I call an “Action Impact Liner”.

To do that you need to explain what you do, what is your action:
I help people manage their money…
I run a company that creates handwritten letters on mass…
I teach kids at primary school…  
I sell artworks…

And then explain the impact it has:
So that they can rest easy when they get to bed at night  
So that you can guarantee to get someone’s attention with a personal touch.
So that the future is a better place.
So that people feel good about their house.

Mine is:
“I help people get confident and comfortable speaking in public so that when someone sees you speak they think “I want to work with you”:”

What is your “Action Impact Liner”?  

You can still give your job title “I’m a Presenter Coach – I help people….etc…”

Try writing your Action “Impact Liner” below

I help / make / create / run * insert verb _____________________________

So that  _______________________________________________________________________

When people know what you do, and how you are passionate about helping people, they will then know to call on you when the issue you can help with arises.